By Robin M. Kowalski
All people has teased, nagged, betrayed, or lied to a different individual. Likewise, all people has been the unlucky item of such disagreeable behaviour. during this quantity, social psychologist Robin Kowalski examines the intricacies of six tense interpersonal forms of behaviour: complaining, teasing, breaches of propriety, fear and reassurance-seeking, mendacity, and betrayal. She considers the capabilities of this behaviour, the kinds of people that tend to do them, the implications for sufferers and perpetrators, and the ways that such behaviour should be curtailed. "Complaining, Teasing, and different stressful Behaviors" presents a multifaceted photograph of universal tense different types of behaviour. The publication solutions those questions and so on: Why do humans tease?; What are the implications of frustrating habit for the folk involved?; Is there a favorable aspect to frustrating behaviour?; Are humans likely to misinform these with reference to them or to strangers?; Do excuses and apologies slash the hurtful impact of disagreeable behaviour?; and what's the relation of gender and tradition to express stressful acts?
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Extra resources for Complaining, Teasing, and Other Annoying Behaviors
Our federal and state governments have issued regulations that tell us we deserve to have our grievances satisﬁed. Many choices and opportunities available to us today were unheard of a few decades ago. We have come to depend on the new technology, and we become frustrated when things don’t work the way we expect. So when things don’t go our way, our expectations are disconﬁrmed, we become dissatisﬁed, and we complain. If your internet service happens to be busy or down when you want to access your e-mail, how much time passes before you phone the customer service number to complain?
Think about a time when you were extremely unhappy with someone else’s behavior but for whatever reason held back from saying anything about it. The more you inhibited any expression of dissatisfaction, the more it weighed on your mind and the angrier you became. When you ﬁnally did complain, you probably exploded in a way out of all proportion to the offense. Making mountains out of molehills is only one of the problems suffered by people who inhibit expression of their emotions. These people may lay themselves open to the consequences of a Type C or Type D personality style, both characterized by the inhibition of emotional expression.
Similarly, perpetrators who are insensitive to or ignore the effects of their behavior on others and continue to behave in ways they know their partners ﬁnd annoying will experience more negative consequences than people who show that they are making at least some effort to stop the behaviors. This is not to say that victims should just put up with troublesome behavior to maintain a relationship. Indeed, such a passive response could be just as harmful to the relationship as anger. Given the inevitability of annoying behaviors, it is unrealistic to expect that they will not occur or will have no negative consequences.
Complaining, Teasing, and Other Annoying Behaviors by Robin M. Kowalski